haha after reading both kh and ch (can factorise) entry, here i am.
i think both of them r true. (altho kh's entry not from him)
as in, i do understand what it means by the thing backfiring. chin hoe oso went on to say that if backfire, then switch loh. if she hestitate, means got chance. logic gate not one-way yet.
got anecdote. my fren from other sch once told a girl that he liked her. she said, 'ok'. then she started blocking on msn and daoing in sch and stuff lidat. from good friends hu talk cock online and in sch to become apparent strangers. so i can understand the backfiring part.
and i dun believe in love at first sight too. but got attraction at first sight hahahaa
anw, what do you ppl think about "letting her go because loving dosnt mean possessing"... To me, its 90% serial drama shit. especially when you see the girl you like going with another person obviously inferior to you. i know this might sound a bit ego or whatever, but sometimes it is really obvious, not only to you, that you would be a better bf.
i think often we lament something like, how this girl so chio, so cute, so nice, how come go with this nerd/bastard/flirt/donjuan/despo/cheebyelanjiaonehnehkia. i mean, sometimes we say this is because we jealous, but most of the times really is liddat. really is flower on da bian. and not in terms of looks summore. in terms of the guy's loyalty, attitude blahblah.
sometimes i seriously dunno what to treat such cases. part of me wants to give warnings to the girl. part of me wants to watch her die when the guy shows true colours , like obi good who ask you choose him and not someone else. the remaining part just try to ignore.
this relates back to the possessing thing. ppl would say if you like the girl true enough you would respect whatever choice she makes, and wish her luck for it. i think this is crap if her choice is obviously a wrong one. but if you try stop ppl would call you despo or someone who can't let go. if you try warn about the guy ppl just think you are jealous and trying to tiao po li jian. so, instead, most guys would just be disgusted utterly and try to forget. like jay chou after seeing the ugly girl in inital d get out of the mercedes
i think ppl hu say "i love her too much, i just wish her happiness" are cocks. trying to console oneself for a battle lost. admit it, you were thrashed by a guy who shouldnt even appear on the screen as a enemy unit. like you play pacman suddenly the cookie jump up and eat you and game over. like you play minesweeper and press minimize window and next it's game over.
but. BUT. if you really believe she has made a better choice, like she chose 60GB Ipod Photo with free engraving over a ulu 128mb mp3 player from china, then of course you are indeed totally thrashed. unless you did spend some extremely good times with her and hence she would remember those moments and her heart goes out to you still, you are owned. GGed. pawned. burned. served. dio-lubbed. thats when you realize she would be happier than being with you. thats when you wish her all the best, good luck, and give her one box chicken essence (and remind her to remember bring entry proof).
hahaha all these r just some thoughts from a non-gaoer.
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